jessica waclawski relationship coaching

More about me.

For over a decade, I worked solely as a clinical therapist where I gained immense experience with relationship dynamics. I chose to step away from the sometimes rigid paradigm of “therapy” to embody a more authentic approach to how I work, or rather guide.

I wanted to meet my clients in a more humanistic and intuitive way while also connecting with those who desire a simpler path towards meaningful living and relationships.

Being authentic and honest are the backbones to my approach. Clients have sought my work for the directness I provide + the art of compassionately challenging you (and your partner) to grow into the healthiest versions of yourself. Often I hear clients tell me how different their experience is from previous therapy/coaching… and they say so in a good way!

I believe it is in relationships that we heal most deeply. The triggers can become our teachers. The wounds, our healers.

I can’t wait to connect with you + walk with you on this amazing journey of crafting deeper connections together.


What to know about me:

If you’re looking for a guide who seeks to embody what she speaks , who is real, down to earth with that midwestern style of grit, then I’m excited to meet you! For me, it’s practice over perfection...always.
— jessica waclawski

Roots + Wings

In 2021 I sold my home in Vail, CO. And I took a bold leap into an unknown. Why? Because I wanted to align with what I coach my clients in everyday: how to be courageous, open hearted + authentic so that this life can be fully lived. And loved!

I cruised around in a bright red camper van that brought me healing and back home to my own heart. These four wheels brought my soul freedom, exploration, and simplicity. Little did I know that this would be a bon voyage to my Maiden self…

I was guided to northern Wisconsin, where I felt the powerful pull of Lake Superior. Through beautiful synchronicity, I rooted down on 5 acres and have been falling in love with this place since. I was soon guided to “my sweets,” my loving partner. We became parents in May 2023 where I discovered my truest passion and crossed the threshold into Motherhood.

Qualifications

  • Masters in Clinical Social Work

  • Postgraduate degree in Couples and Family Therapy

  • Certified as an Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist

  • Trained as a Postpartum Doula

  • Perinatal Mental Health Cert.

  • Trained in Imago Couples Counseling

  • Completed MAPS MDMA Assisted Psychotherapy Training Program

  • Completed various somatic trainings

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My story

I have long been enchanted by love and have craved deep meaningful connections throughout my life. Yet, my own path hasn’t been a smooth road.

I’ve battled anxiety + dark spells of depression, all part of a soulful alchemy that pushed me to confront + learn what healing demands. I went through a painful dissolving of my own marriage that prompted a powerful awakening. I had to face the hurt parts of me that allowed me to stay in unhealthy relationships, my co-dependency + my loss of self worth.

So when I tell you I get it + I’ve been there, I mean it. And this is where true empathy + compassion come from. This is what heals, when we’re real with one another. Human to human, soul to soul.

I’ve sat across from unhelpful + even harmful therapists myself, so I also get it when you tell me, “I’ve tried this before and it didn’t work.”

My commitment to you, as it also is to myself, is to show up open, curious, + honest. I don’t sell bullshit bliss or subscribe to bypassing the realness of being human.

So let’s get into the muddy waters together, explore + find our way through!

xo,
~ jess