You know exactly what you want.
A single, focused day of immersive work for couples who are done circling the same conversation.
You'll leave knowing exactly what keeps happening between you, why, and what to do differently, with a written map and my support in your pocket for the weeks after.
$2,500 · Virtual · Limited dates
THE RECOGNITION
You've had this conversation before…
Maybe fifty times.
You know how it starts, where it turns, and exactly how it ends.
And you still can't stop it from happening.
The fight isn't about what the fight is about
One of you reaches, the other pulls back, and you both feel alone
You've read the books. You've tried the tools. Nothing sticks
You don't need someone to referee.
You need someone to interrupt it and change the pattern
Let's be direct about what this is.
This is one day. And it is not a quick fix.
What one focused day can do is something weekly sessions rarely manage: catch the pattern while it's happening, slow it down enough that you both see it and feel it, while giving you new language for you'll still be using six months from now.
Most couples spend months describing the problem to someone. We're going to go find it and reroute it.
What the day includes
01 · In-Depth Intake
Before we ever meet, you each complete a private, detailed intake. Separately, honestly, in your own words. This is where people say the things they've never said out loud in the room.
I read both. Closely. By the time you arrive, I already know the shape of what's happening between you, so we don't spend the first two hours on background.
02 · The Intensive
2.5 hours of guided, real-time work.
Virtually, wherever you are.
We don't talk about your patterns from a distance. We go into them and I artfully interrupt where they live. This is the part most people have never experienced: being stopped mid-pattern, gently, and shown what just happened. And more importantly, what to do differently. Together.
03 · Your Relationship Map
Within 24hrs of the intensive, you receive a written Relationship Map built specifically for the two of you.
It names your cycle. It shows where connection gets dropped, what each of you does when it does, and what the repair actually requires from each side. It includes the specific language to use when you feel it starting again.
This is the document couples tell me they keep coming back to.
04 · Voxer Support
For two weeks after your day with me, you both have private voice-and-text access to me.
When the pattern shows up (and it will), you send me a message. I'll tell you what's happening and what to do next, in the moment, not weeks later trying to recap in a session. This is where insight turns into something that holds.
WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE
The cycle named, in words you both agree on
A written map you can return to when things get hard
The ability to catch the pattern before it takes over
Repair that actually lands, instead of an apology that goes nowhere
Support in the weeks after, when it matters most
This is for you if…
You still love each other, and you've stopped reaching each other
You want depth without a six-month commitment
You're willing to be honest, including about the parts that aren't flattering
You've tried weekly therapy and want something more direct
You'd rather be challenged than comforted
This isn't the right fit if…
Only one of you wants to be there
You're looking for someone to decide who's right
There's active abuse or a safety concern in the relationship
Active and unaddressed substance abuse
What clients have to say:
"We had been doing sessions for months, and the immersion moved us forward in ways that felt like years. I can't fully explain it, but something shifted deeply between us."
"This was an experience that I wish we had done decades ago, so that we could connect. The experience provided a pathway for me to know about my partner rather than to simply know of my partner."
"I am deeply grateful for my sessions with Jessica. I've never felt more seen or challenged in my direction. This is so much more than therapy. I couldn't recommend her more."
Why trust me?
I spent over a decade as a clinical therapist, certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy, specializing in couples on the brink.
I left that model because it was limiting for I felt, not only I was capable of, but what my clients were capable of experiencing.
What I do now is more direct. Deeper and longer lasting.
I catch the exact moment connection gets dropped: where curiosity disappears, where assumptions replace understanding, where withdrawal begins. Then I show you exactly how to expand emotional capacity and build safety together.
I'm not the silent or passive type. I’m engaged, leaned in, and know I'll challenge you. It’s why clients keep returning to my work. They trust they’ll receive honest real guidance. Nothing scripted. Nothing cookie cutter. Everything felt and customized to you and your dynamics.
xo, jess
Reset with The Day Intensive
$2,500
In-depth private intake for each of you
2.5 hour virtual intensive
Custom written Relationship Map delivered with 24hrs
Two weeks of Voxer access to me (mon-wed)
This is the most condensed form of my work. REBUILD is $8,000 for three days in person, $6,000 for the three-month virtual container.
This container is paid in full.
Applications open through end of September. Then closed.
Every application is reviewed personally by me and I’ll respond to schedule your day with me.
